Top 10 Do's & Don'ts For Men on Valentine's Day - Meridian Farm Market (2024)

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If you’re like a lot of men, at one time in your life youforgotabout Valentine’s Day and found yourself hunting for the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for your sweetheart… on Valentine’s Day… on your way home from work.

Don’t be that guy this year. Read this list of Valentine’s Do’s & Don’ts to make sure you have your bases covered.

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We found this fun list of Valentine’s Do’s & Don’ts for men from TheSpruce.com, and thought we’d share this sage advice. Enjoy, and Happy Valentine’s Day!

Top 10 Valentine’s Don’ts

1. Don’t Forget!
   I think that the worst thing I could do about Valentine’s Day is forgetting all about it. Put it on your calendar in big red letters. And a few days before, make sure you put a reminder in your day planner or your smartphone. Planning ahead to implement some of the do’s on this list will involve some advance thought and effort.
2. Don’t buy kitchen appliances.
   Or anything else practical. Valentine’s Day is supposed to be a little extravagant. A new blender is not—I repeat, is not—romantic. Whatever gift you choose should be nice and out of the ordinary.
3. Don’t do the same thing you did last year.
   Even if it worked well, your partner will appreciate something new and different. She wants to know that you thought about her as you planned your Valentine’s Day gift or event.
4. Don’t give her lingerie.
   Now, I know the people at Victoria’s Secret will not like this, but lingerie is a very dangerous gift. You can get the wrong size, which is a big problem. You can get the wrong colour. But most importantly, when guys give lingerie their partners believe that they only have one thought in mind, and giving lingerie can really backfire. Just resist the temptation and be a little more creative.
5. Don’t have unrealistic expectations.
   While your partner wants to be pampered, you also have to understand that her day is filled with many demands—kids, work, house, and more.Make sure you go the extra mile, but keep your expectations realistic and in check.
6. Don’t overspend.
   Particularly if you share a bank account and a credit card with your sweetheart, breaking the bank is a bad idea. Keep within your budget and have the nicest evening you can afford. If it is too extravagant, she’ll likely be panicked about money and too stressed to have fun.
7. Don’t talk about an ex.
   One of the surest ways to spoil a Valentine’s Day evening is to have your partner think you are thinking about another woman. Don’t talk about your former wife or girlfriend; keep the conversation focused on your woman and life will be better.
8. Don’t give her a generic card.
   She will not be impressed with the nicest card from the local Hallmark if you just sign your name. Add a note about how much you love her, how much she means to you, and any other positive feelings you have. The personal part is what is romantic to her, not how much lace is on the card or how much you spent on it.
9. Don’t do guy stuff.
   Your favourite team may be in town, or you may be tempted to take her to a sports bar for dinner. Just don’t. This is her night, so stay away from the guy stuff, and put her first. You can always record or DVR the televised game and watch it tomorrow.
10. Don’t spend the night online.
    Too many of us tend to get in front of the computer late at night for gaming, chatting or other online stuff. Sometimes they even go to bed without us, and that would be unacceptable – if not unforgivable – on Valentine’s Day. For this one night, leave the computer off and focus on your woman. She will be grateful for your undivided attention.

Top 10 Valentine’sDo’s

1. Send a gift to work.
   If your partner is employed, delivering or sending a Valentine’s Day gift to work is a welcome idea. The old standby gifts for Valentine’s Day like flowers and candy work, but you might also want to consider something out of the ordinary like a balloon bouquet or a stuffed animal. It will show her in front of her peers that she is loved and remembered on Valentine’s Day.
2. Make a homemade Valentine.
   Cards from the store are nice, but your partner will really know you love her if you take the time to make yourown Valentine card. Get out the scissors, red construction paper, white paper doilies and glue and get started. Your own little verse would add just the right touch. Taking time to do something out of the ordinary is romantic.
3. Cook for her.
   Once again, doing something out of the routine is an important way to show you care. Breakfast in bed, or cooking aromantic dinner for twocan be fun for you and let her know you were willing to go the extra mile. But you might want to avoid experimenting with a complicated recipe that you have never tried before. If you do, you risk ruining the Valentine’s Day meal. Stick with something you have done before that is a meal she will enjoy.
4. Remember romance.
   Valentine’s Day for your partner is all about romance. That means taking the time to do the little extras like dressing up for your dinner (either in or out), leaving little love notes around, or being on time for your commitments. While guys aren’t often good at romance, it is important to her. Try to see yourself as the man she wishes you were and thendeliverbeyond her expectation.
5. Turn off the electronics.
   While we live in afast-pacedtime with cell phones or personal digital assistants running our lives, Valentine’s Day is not a time for interruptions. Turn off the phone, the tablet or the laptop and focus your attention on your significant other. The one electronic item you might want to hang onto is a camera to record some of the fun memories you will be making.
6. Write hera love letter.
   This is not an email,a text messageor a card, but a real love letter. In your own handwriting, tell her what she really means to you. Tell her why you would choose her all over again if you had to. Remind her why you are thrilled that she is your kids’ mom and the love of your life.
7. Watch a chick flick.
   Sure, you’d rather be watching the latest 007 film or WWE Smackdown, but she’ll appreciate you sitting through a romantic movie. Consider classic chick flicks like,,You’ve Got MailorSleepless in Seattleif you are looking for one that you both might enjoy.
8. Offer her a massage.
   Many Valentine’s Day experts recommend a day spa gift certificate as a great gift option for your sweetheart, but I think apersonalmassageis a wonderful alternative. Giving your woman a good foot massage or a solid back rub can really make her relax and feel good. Learn some massage techniques, pick up some massage oil and work out those stiff muscles.
9. Consider spreading gifts throughout the day.
   Rather than one big gift, you should try giving her a number of smaller gifts during the day. Maybe one gift at breakfast, leave one on the front seat of her car or in her medicine chest in the bathroom, one at work, and then another one on the front seat of her car before she leaves work. Going the extra mile to remember her during the day will pay big dividends in how she reacts the rest of the day.
10. Just relax.
    While I know these ideas sound like a lot of work, it is important to not overdo it. Don’t try to cram too much into the day or into the evening. A leisurely pace is an important component of making Valentine’s Day great for your woman.